I’ve been fortunate enough in my life that I haven’t had to plan a funeral so far. I really can’t imagine the stress of having to do that. It’s no wonder that it’s an industry known for high costs. I can imagine you would be willing to pay ANYTHING to avoid having to make those kinds of decisions… Continue reading Cremation vs. Burial Costs
I couldn’t figure out how to delicately bring up the subject of what my parents want done with their bodily remains after death. The topic is awkward on all sides. If you’re elderly, you may worry that just talking about what happens after death could be depressing or bad luck. (Is that wood-knocking I hear?)… Continue reading Alternatives to the Traditional Funeral
It is important to recognize that all children are unique in their understanding of death and dying. This understanding depends on their developmental level, cognitive skills, personality characteristics, religious or spiritual beliefs, teachings by parents and significant others, input from the media, and previous experiences with death. Nonetheless, there are some general considerations that will… Continue reading What do kids of various ages realize about loss of life?
The following tips may help you to support your child after the loss of a loved one. Some of these recommendations come from Dr. Alan Wolfelt, Director of the Center for Loss and Life Transition in Fort Collins, Colorado. Allow your child to be the teacher about their grief experiences: Give your child the opportunity to… Continue reading How can I support my youngster with the loss of a loved one?
The range of reactions that kids display in response to the death of significant others may include: Emotional shock and at times an apparent lack of feelings, which serve to help the child detach from the pain of the moment; Regressive (immature) behaviors, such as needing to be rocked or held, difficulty separating from parents or significant… Continue reading How do youngsters react to loss of life?
