By Palmer Dupree, as told to QCity Metro Staff Writers As a licensed funeral director, I’ve faced many complicated and unusual situations. Covid was different. Dealing with a pandemic was very unusual, something that we were never taught in school. The first challenge was preparing ourselves to remain safe. At that time, we knew it… Continue reading ‘Covid was different’ – QCity Metro interview
We have all spent the better part of 2020 adjusting to a new “normal” due to the COVID-19 pandemic. As “essential” businesses, funeral services have had to conduct a complete overhaul of many practices to respond to the impact of this novel virus. From reducing funeral size to eliminating car services, Long & Son has… Continue reading Long & Son Weathers the COVID Storm
Due to the National Health Crisis COVID-19 pandemic, we the staff of Long & Son will follow the procedures from the Federal Government as Directed. We recognize that it’s already a difficult time putting to rest a loved one and will continue to provide outstanding service. Thank you for your understanding.
As students return to classes across the Charlotte-Mecklenburg area, the staff of Long & Son supported local students by supplying stuffed book bags to the C.W. Williams Community Health Center, a local community health center committed to the highest quality Primary and Preventive Care services and Health Education to all community and surrounding community residents in… Continue reading Long and Son Supports Community “Back to School” Supply Drive
January 1, 2018 As we embark upon a new year, the staff of Long & Son Mortuary Service, Inc. takes this opportunity to honor the fond memories and reflect upon the firm foundation left to us by our beloved founders: Lem and Eddie V. Long. We knew that they would not live forever; and yet,… Continue reading Building on a Legacy of Excellence: Quality and Service
I’ve been fortunate enough in my life that I haven’t had to plan a funeral so far. I really can’t imagine the stress of having to do that. It’s no wonder that it’s an industry known for high costs. I can imagine you would be willing to pay ANYTHING to avoid having to make those kinds of decisions… Continue reading Cremation vs. Burial Costs
I couldn’t figure out how to delicately bring up the subject of what my parents want done with their bodily remains after death. The topic is awkward on all sides. If you’re elderly, you may worry that just talking about what happens after death could be depressing or bad luck. (Is that wood-knocking I hear?)… Continue reading Alternatives to the Traditional Funeral
It is important to recognize that all children are unique in their understanding of death and dying. This understanding depends on their developmental level, cognitive skills, personality characteristics, religious or spiritual beliefs, teachings by parents and significant others, input from the media, and previous experiences with death. Nonetheless, there are some general considerations that will… Continue reading What do kids of various ages realize about loss of life?
The following tips may help you to support your child after the loss of a loved one. Some of these recommendations come from Dr. Alan Wolfelt, Director of the Center for Loss and Life Transition in Fort Collins, Colorado. Allow your child to be the teacher about their grief experiences: Give your child the opportunity to… Continue reading How can I support my youngster with the loss of a loved one?
The range of reactions that kids display in response to the death of significant others may include: Emotional shock and at times an apparent lack of feelings, which serve to help the child detach from the pain of the moment; Regressive (immature) behaviors, such as needing to be rocked or held, difficulty separating from parents or significant… Continue reading How do youngsters react to loss of life?
